Chicago Seduction
How to Use Statements of Intent (SOI's)
By: Ice
A statement of intent (SOI) is used when qualifying or escalating a girl. As a pickup artist, you want to show genuine
interest in women. You want to show them that you're not gay and do in fact want to view them sexually. An SOI is a
form of IOI (Indicator of Interest) that you use on a woman that deserves it. An SOI is not randomly used but is a way
for a pickup artist to reward a woman's good behavior and escalate the interaction.
An SOI is simply when you state your intent with a woman. It should be genuine and should be used only after a girl
has qualified. In other words, a woman should earn an SOI first by revealing her personality or opening up to you.
Then, you reward her good behavior by telling her what you think about her.
When the PUA states his intent, it should be based off of the girl's personality to create a genuine connection as well
as to sexually escalate. A random SOI is something like, "I think you're hot." This can work, and it does sexually
escalate, but it does not build genuine connection and is not unique to the two of you. Millions of other woman are hot,
what makes her different? Why is she special?
For instance, maybe you're talking to a girl and she reveals to you that she teaches pre-school. She talks about how
she loves children although sometimes they are annoying to her, but she endures the pain. After her qualifying
statement, as a pickup artist, you respond by saying, "Wow, I just noticed that I find you so sexy because you have
such a caring and gentle personality." Now, there is no doubt in her head that you're attracted to her. This is good. She
gave you IOI's, she qualified herself to you, and you reward her, thus escalating the interaction.
There can be a variety of different SOI's from opening a woman up until having sex with her. You should SOI her before
getting her phone number to avoid looking like a player or looking needy. Tell her why you want her phone number
and why she deserves the opportunity to give it to you. "I have to run... but I really enjoyed your company and it's rare to
meet somebody who has such good conversational skills. Let me grab your number and we'll get together some
other time."
You may sexually escalate and seduce women by using sexual SOI's. On a day 2, you may say something like, "I
noticed today that you have the sexiest personality. Your great conversational skills won me over. I'm surprised I
haven't made love to you in front of everybody." This SOI propels the interaction forward by initiating a sexual, more
romantic frame.
Your interaction with a woman should always be escalating. If a pickup artist finds himself talking about fluff for 30
minutes with a woman and doesn't escalate at all, the woman will get bored and the interaction will be stale. You will
Demonstrate Lower Value (DLV) by not having the confidence to move the interaction forward. You are the man. You
are the dominant one. You should lead women from the beginning until the end.
By: Ice
A statement of intent (SOI) is used when qualifying or escalating a girl. As a pickup artist, you want to show genuine
interest in women. You want to show them that you're not gay and do in fact want to view them sexually. An SOI is a
form of IOI (Indicator of Interest) that you use on a woman that deserves it. An SOI is not randomly used but is a way
for a pickup artist to reward a woman's good behavior and escalate the interaction.
An SOI is simply when you state your intent with a woman. It should be genuine and should be used only after a girl
has qualified. In other words, a woman should earn an SOI first by revealing her personality or opening up to you.
Then, you reward her good behavior by telling her what you think about her.
When the PUA states his intent, it should be based off of the girl's personality to create a genuine connection as well
as to sexually escalate. A random SOI is something like, "I think you're hot." This can work, and it does sexually
escalate, but it does not build genuine connection and is not unique to the two of you. Millions of other woman are hot,
what makes her different? Why is she special?
For instance, maybe you're talking to a girl and she reveals to you that she teaches pre-school. She talks about how
she loves children although sometimes they are annoying to her, but she endures the pain. After her qualifying
statement, as a pickup artist, you respond by saying, "Wow, I just noticed that I find you so sexy because you have
such a caring and gentle personality." Now, there is no doubt in her head that you're attracted to her. This is good. She
gave you IOI's, she qualified herself to you, and you reward her, thus escalating the interaction.
There can be a variety of different SOI's from opening a woman up until having sex with her. You should SOI her before
getting her phone number to avoid looking like a player or looking needy. Tell her why you want her phone number
and why she deserves the opportunity to give it to you. "I have to run... but I really enjoyed your company and it's rare to
meet somebody who has such good conversational skills. Let me grab your number and we'll get together some
other time."
You may sexually escalate and seduce women by using sexual SOI's. On a day 2, you may say something like, "I
noticed today that you have the sexiest personality. Your great conversational skills won me over. I'm surprised I
haven't made love to you in front of everybody." This SOI propels the interaction forward by initiating a sexual, more
romantic frame.
Your interaction with a woman should always be escalating. If a pickup artist finds himself talking about fluff for 30
minutes with a woman and doesn't escalate at all, the woman will get bored and the interaction will be stale. You will
Demonstrate Lower Value (DLV) by not having the confidence to move the interaction forward. You are the man. You
are the dominant one. You should lead women from the beginning until the end.
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